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The Candle of Hope

April 30, 2012 by Dzung Vuong Leave a Comment

I take my two daughters Yasmin and Isabella to school three times a week. We would leave at 8.15am and I’m usually home by 8.45am.

Today, after I’m back from my short journey to their school, I lighted a candle in my office and start writing. The white candle is mounted on a multi-color holder that makes it looks like a mini Olympic torch. I place it away from my laptop, next to the window so when I look at the candle, I can see the calm flame, the tree outside and the daylight.

A candle symbolizes for hope, for a bright future, for calm and is an excellent source to help you relax. I remember the song by Elton John ‘Candle in the Wind’ dedicated to Princess Diana some years back. I remember seeing the Olympic torch on TV, I remember the candle at Christmas. Even when we lost electricity at the last winter storm for a few hours, our candle gave us warm and light.

An amazing thing about a candle in the room is how still the flame is. It is as if I look at the photograph, only the leaves waving in the tree outside the window and my typing tell me that it is for real.

This gives me an idea for my next meditation. I would sit quietly on a soft cushion, in the evening. I would light a candle, sits down, breath deeply and relax, let ideas come in and go. The candle would be a source of energy, a focal point and my companion for that meditation session.

Filed Under: Creative Writing, Dzung Vuong, psychology, Success Tagged With: creative writing, discovery, Dzung Vuong, lifestyle

Changing Hearts, Minds and Actions

September 4, 2011 by Dzung Vuong Leave a Comment

The latest book by Guy Kawasaki (@GuyKawasaki) Enchantment is an action oriented and 21st century equivalent of “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie in the field of influence and interpersonal skills.

The book uses real examples from companies and people to illustrate the points.

Here are a few examples:

On how to enchant your boss:

“Drop everything and do what your boss asks”

And for husbands:

“If your wife asks you to do something, drop everything and do it”

“Under promise, Over deliver”

Guy also have 2 chapters, one on push and one on pull technologies. He stated that (as of 2011 when the book is published), twitter is the most powerful enchantment he’s used in his career. He should know, at the time of writing, he has over 400,000 followers.

The humor part of the book is on the section of reciprocity with a photo and caption: “Richard Branson [founder of Virgin group] polishes my shoe and make me a Virgin America customer for life”.

Excellent and enchanting book, recommended.

 

Filed Under: Book, Business, psychology Tagged With: Books, Guy Kawasaki, influence, Life Management, linkedin, reading, relationship

How fast do you think?

June 5, 2010 by Dzung Vuong Leave a Comment

In a typical problem solving situation, we gather the information, analyze alternatives, evaluate options and perhaps repeat this process a few times before reaching a decision or conclusion.

In Blink, Malcolm Gladwell introduced ‘fast thinking’ called ‘thin-slicing’.
Try this example (#1):
A man and his son are in a serious car accident. The father is killed, and the son is rushed to the emergency room. Upon arriving, the attending doctor looks at the child and gasps, “This is my son!”. Who is the doctor?
I heard so much about Gladwell’s books and must try them. Blink is a difficult book for me to read. This is about psychology, you need lots of patience to go through. It took me almost 10 days – too long for one book.
Let’s look at another example (#2):
A giant inverted steel pyramid is perfectly balanced on its point. Any movement of the pyramid will cause it to topple over. Underneath the pyramid is $100 bill. How do you remove the bill without disturbing the pyramid?
For both examples above, I did not get the right answer in the first few seconds.
Answer to #1: The doctor is the boy’s mother.
Answer to #2: Destroy the bill in some was – tear it or burn it
The 2 examples above require flash of insight.
This is the essence of Blink. How to make a decision with very limited time and very limited information.
The best about the book is the story telling. Gladwell told his story very well.
You may also want to try out the Implicit Association Test. This tests your response and how your mind associate to certain things.
Filed Under: psychology Tagged With: Books, linkedin, Problem Solving, psychology, reading

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